What's Marriage about?

Today is not a good day for me.. Just because i received a bad news from one of my best friend regards on her marriage. What is the worst matter when it comes to a marriage? Money? Kids? nope.. It's an affair.. Im really sad on that and this was the third time I heard this tearfully complaint from this best friend of mine..What the hxxx is the guy doing!! A year plus new-marriage with a new born child but having an affair outside!!!!! This is not the first time hearing about broken marriage among my friends, what is really happening outside the world? That's why alot of psychological abnormality, meltal illness patient out there. And "Pretty Women walking down the street shall change to "Many Psyco's" walking down the street. Eventhough if happens there really a Pretty Women walking infront of you, beware.. coz you won't know if she's one of the psyco.

Well, I'm not from a well-established family. An affair from parents is really bad for any kids's growth, either emotionally or physically.. There's a so call "Butterfly Effect"It has been said something as small as the flutter of a butterfly's wing can ultimately cause a typhoon halfway around the world. - Chaos Theory. And for those so called "Parents", please bear in your mind that this really hurts and eventually destroy the brought-up childhood and their whole life, who will really understand this? Of course, thanks god I am still alive and I'm always stronger than anyone, I believed this is self-protection which has been forced to brought me up faster than anyone who was deadly pampered.

What comes after the wedding ceremony and several years later? Being bored with your partner and accidently fall in love with one's wife or bump with mistresses for that sort of thing. Come on, you should be responsible for your own and your wife, and the new born child who wish to have their own good daddy, mummy and his/her perfect family.. Then why you want to get married at the first place! Gosh... Do you notice that you are ruining people's life. And girl, never being stupid to fall in love with a married guy, you need to have self-control! But if you thought that you are that great enough to make things happen, then I shall wish you good luck for the coming retribution. I believe that indeed, you will pay back what you'd done today.

Going back to my topic-What's Marriage about? Perhaps the key to a successful marriage lies in understanding the metaphysics of it, along with its evolution and a keener understanding of what commitment truly is. Love in these marriages was not even considered. As marriage has evolved, people have evolved as well, and not yet discovered that marriage has moved out of the realm of the physical and into the realm of a spiritual partnership. Well, that's why I am still single and enjoy with my life..

But for those who get married, please be responsible to yourself, and your family. Marriage is not an easy thing, especially giving birth to a new born child. Education is very important! Im not talking about educating the children, but make sure you educate yourself before you educate your own generation if you want them to be educated!

For women: http://thestar.com.my/lifestyle/story.asp?file=/2008/10/13/lifefocus/2033693&sec=lifefocus
Related site: http://members.tripod.com/~Dr_Roth/index3-00perceptions.html