My beloved Dad- Alan Lee

我亲爱的爸爸。。




其实这篇文章是想和你们分享一首很久以前的歌曲，但是写着。。写着。。我的爸爸出现了。。 那么就简单地介绍我与爸爸的感情吧！
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我想问问我的同辈们， 你们可有自己记忆中的一首童歌，不是童谣。
我自己影响中最深的是这首， 这是一首我童年时最熟悉的歌，因为爸那时很喜欢播放王杰的歌，而且这首歌有小孩子的声音，自然而然的我也会哼了。



很简单的歌词，也是最深刻的歌曲！



娃娃在哭了


娃娃在哭呀 妈妈不在旁 娃娃到处寻找 找也找不到
我的妈妈悄悄走了 为何把我留下 不管是天是海是地 我要把你寻找


娃娃在哭呀 爸爸不在旁 娃娃到处寻找 找也找不到
我的爸爸悄悄走了 为何把我留下 不管是天是海是地 我要把你寻找

听听看: http://6.cn/watch/7417624.html


奇怪的是，我尝试问过身边的朋友都没印象！可能是我自己感触，所以才会对此歌印象深刻。
还记得该是一二年级的时候，我最爱的父亲离乡背井去了新加坡工作，那时的我最粘爸爸了，可是爸只能每月，甚至每两个月回来那么几天。痛苦的我只能每天重复同样的问题“啊咪（妈咪），daddy 几时回来？” 小孩子嘛。。 盼呀望呀。。 每天的日子一天又一天地重复着。直到啊咪讲要把客厅及房间收拾干净，我和傻婆（这是我对大我两年大姐的称呼）之然而然就知道爸要回来了！我可是心甘情愿的哦！傻婆可不是咯，因为她比较粘啊咪，所以她总是随随便便的交差就算。。



以前家里穷，没汽车，只有摩多车及脚踏车。所以爸是会座火车从新加坡回到芙蓉。爸每次回来总是会买很多东西回来给两个小鬼，当然我的礼物总会多过大姐啦，印象中有玩具，荔枝（以前的荔枝很贵的啊）爸会买两大袋回来，邻居的小孩们多羡慕啊！，还有爸最常买给我的-手表。哈哈， 小学时代的我有各式各样的手表，然而它们也变成了我的牺牲品，你会问：为什么呢？ 答案很简单， 因为我可是小科学家，把它们拆开来改头换面！结果嘞- 坏了。。 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。然后把它们藏起来或扔掉，不是等吃“黄线焖猪肉”。什么来的？-藤鞭啦！！四年级时（1992年）我就拥有无敌电脑辞典及SEGA了！因为新加坡已流行了，爸也知道我会喜欢！所以买回来了！我还跟爸同行协力地玩Sonic，爸是Sonic， 我是小狐狸（拍档）打大佬直到凌晨（四年级吧了呀）！ 哈哈。。。（脚踝小孩爸爸，不给人家睡觉的！没啦！是我心野。。）


有我陪爸回家当然开心啦，因为笨笨的我总是被他欺骗及利用。例如帮他捶背，他会说一百下，我就会开始算一二三四五六。。。一百！玩奸臭的他又会游说我多一百，捶下捶下会捶到五六百下的啊！可怜的小手！ 嘻嘻。。 还有就是帮他买香烟，印象中我好像帮他买过两块多的香烟 （十八年前），租戏啦（JAWs, SPEED，还有很多引文鬼片-我想现在不敢看都是多亏他），还要是晚上八九点半还叫我帮他租带！ 不过也好，因为我也可以乘机溜出去买零食，嘻嘻。。小时的沉香是很太平的。所以把也会很放心我晚上出去，可能是我比较男孩性格吧（不怕死）！我可是非常狡猾得哦，因为爸在的时候我最爱假装在客厅睡着了，然后爸爸就会抱着我上床睡，帮我盖被，好温暖我。有时我可是不小心的漏出马脚（偷笑），被爸拆穿了！结果被他“咕唧”个不停！


爸也会带我们去走街，。那时的芙蓉只有一间百货公司，所谓的百货公司其实只是四层楼的店铺，没有电梯，好像是叫“森朗”之类的。然后就有“黄金”，最厉害的当然是可以吃KFC, Mc.Donald, A&W啦。我呀！最爱撒娇说脚累，走不动，爸爸就会背着我走，还记得有次我发现月亮总是跟着我们走，不停的跟，傻傻的我就问爸爸：“为什么月亮总是跟踪我们，我们走它又走，我们转弯，它又转弯，我们停，它又跟着停？”爸说：“因为它要照着我们走的路，还有看你有没有乖！”又在骗人了！不知道会不会有人会和我一样的问同个问题呢？
开心时刻过的特别快，又是时候讲拜拜！爸回来才两三天，又要回去新加坡了，好舍不得呀，因为我又得等爸下次的归来。爸多数都会乘座夜班火车回去，他就会大概九点半从家里出发，我就会依依不舍的满眼含着百般不舍的小心情向爸爸道别，眼泪一滴一滴的滑落。其实有样事情爸是不知的，每当爸踏出家门后，我都会很快地跑去厨房再爬到最高望着爸爸的踪影（豆将我很男人婆咯），远盯着爸爸走着小巷的影子-直到慢慢地消失为止。眼泪稀里哗啦的留，然后才慢慢的爬下来跑回床上再继续哭（多么想爸爸不要再走）。这样的动作应该是从二年级延续至五六年级吧。



其实女儿真的可以很粘爸爸的，因为女儿会撒娇，会嘟起张嘴，还有装可爱！哈哈。。。
直到现在为止，我都会很粘爸爸，不是真的粘着啦！是会常常很想念他，回去探望他。虽然已长大了，爸爸也多了很多白发，可是童年的记忆还依然很深刻，对爸爸的爱也从未减少。有时回到去看到爸有烦恼或是憔悴不少，心真的会痛起来，因为觉得自己很没用，很无能为力！所以现在每当爸有什么困难我都会尽力，起码我可以在他最需要帮忙的时候第一个伸出援手。这是作为儿女的本分！



有时我看到朋友们不回家我会很生气，因为我可是有家回不得，别人可是有家不要会！偶尔回去探望老人家也好啊！它是你们的父母亲啊！没他们就根本没有你！时下的年轻人啊，亲情可贵！要好好珍惜！
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还有一首很有意识的歌曲，献给离乡背井的游子，还有不孝子听的！请留意歌词。
（如果你觉得跟时下流行音乐没什么不同，那么请跟着MV唱， 你会明白）

歌曲名称：爸爸妈妈 （张栋梁）

恨不得快点　长大　天下父母都这般期盼着我们啊
我们已健康　成长　快来祈祷父母长命百岁啊

请记得要常回家看看爸爸和妈妈　简单的一顿饭他们也开心很久啊
随便聊一些话　或随意待在家　父母的伟大是从不要求我们报答

生活的压力　真大　爸爸妈妈多苦也撑起了一个家
我的一点点　挫败　说历尽沧桑仍微不足道啊

请给我多一点时间证明给你们看　请原谅我的能力有限再要努力啊
偶尔我没回家　或工作到天亮　偶尔你慰问的电话让我充满力量
父母的伟大穷我一生也难以报答我们要把握时光来疼爱爸爸　妈妈

听听看: http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/MGFxi6f05jY/
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歌曲名称：爸爸妈妈 （王蓉）

嘿 妈妈那天你再次为我悄悄流下泪
你可知道它已化做伤痛滴滴落在我心扉 永远都不会忘记你看我时那难舍的眼神 我不会

嘿 爸爸从小就给我最多保护那个人 你为什么总是低着头一直地抽烟不说话
这次我独自离开 寻找另一种生活 听我说 让我说 我爱他他是我心中的那只蝶

飞呀飞飞到我心里面化成茧 不知道还要多久才能叫醒我 共谱成一曲祝英台和梁山伯

嘿 妈妈我那么幸福能在你身边长大 现在有一个人对我很好代替你们照顾我
我永远是你们的 我永远是你们的 小宝贝 好宝贝

嘿 爸爸这么多年来你为这个家受累 你像一棵大树是我心中最最坚实的堡垒
在这个时候请你也帮我劝劝妈妈 别伤悲 不伤悲

爸爸妈妈你听到了吗 这是我心里的话 请你不要难过不要悲伤女孩总是要长大
是你教会我坚强 给我那一对翅膀 我飞翔 我飞翔

听听看: http://www.9ku.com/play/7/6/NJYYNDM.htm

Bali Trip 2007

Bali Bali.... I miss u....

Me, Shyang, Sam & Fenson @ Kintamani

Bali... This was the only travel destination where I want to return.

If you are planning for a great holidays, great view, save budgets, relaxing destination. For sure, Bali will be ur first choice!

We managed to booked the zero airfair tickets from Airasia (Cost about RM 175 per pax for return tickets) and sign-up with a ground arrangement tour package with KL's travel agency for RM388 (4d3n inclusive of 1 day city tour to Ubud and Tanah Lot).

From KL to Bali

Fullmoon, because it was Chinese lantern festival'07

We stayed at the main seaside & street of Bali-Kuta Beach, Mecure Hotel (next to Planet Hollywood Hotel) and stay at Hotel Sri. Kesuma at Legian Street (10 minutes distant walk from Kuta beach) on the 4th nights. What's the different about this 2 places? Well, Kuta was just a street with few restaurants and having the great sea view and 5 minutes walk to shopping mall-Sunshine mall. Whereby in Legian Street (1st Bom venue) it's more happening where you can see pubs & restaurant are just around you. I can say Sri.Kesuma was the strategic location as it was just located next to the main street. Even though it was the last night staying there, we went to a western restaurants for steak at Poppi Street and continue with 3 pubs & bistro until late night. Really having great fun over there, and the most important thing is the price was reasonable!!

Strong waves @ Kuta Beach

Kuta beach local market

Nice helmet, but Sorry larr.. you can't wear this in M'sia

My post is normal

This is really abnormal.. wahaha

Me n my buddy- Sam

Breakfast view from Mecure Hotel

Sri.Kesuma hotel's view

Fenson Cheng & Sam

Me & Darling

Dinner @ Poppi Street

Nite view @ Legian Street

Travelling spots will be Kintamani (Volcano), Tanah Lot (Sea Temple), Uluwatu (Great sea view on top of the hill), Jimbaran (Seafood Dinner beside the beach with great night views), Sukawati (local market) and Ubub (Traveller's market).

Tanah Lot

Uluwatu


Yummy Yummy.. Jimbaran Seafood

Strong waves @ Jimbaran

For those who love to shop and would like to buy some souvenirs & painting back to M'sia. You can get more choice from Ubub Market, variety of choices (slightly expansive). Whereby at Sukawati, you are able to get cheaper price but selective products, because it's about the same at every stores.

For those who stay at Kuta & Legian Street, you can just go to Kuta Market (located 10 -15 minutes walking distant) and have a look, not much choices but that's the place where you can grap for the final souvenirs.. haha.. (Tips for shoppers: Try to find a store which sell variaty of goods eg: necklace, shoes, belt, shirts, dress; and buy it all in that particular stores, you can really bargain and negotiate the price till the lowest) For instant, I bought 8 pairs of slippers cost RM8 each after negotiation and sam managed to nego untill RM4.50 per pair and bought others stuff within the same store. For sure it will save you alot of money. We enjoy bargaining and negotiating the prices like reducing from 8k Ruppiah till 7k ruppiah, but after bargaining for 15 minutes then only we realised that was just RM0.38 different for that thousand ruppiah..haha.. we give up to continue bargaining.. but there's alot of fun...

Guys! you will be a good negotiator here as my bf was the one who does that! and for sure I am the one who continue to shop around.. hahahahaha......

Well, what's the other stuff that i've miss out. Oh, the Padi Field at Ubub, scenetic view and don't forget to take care of your belongings, coz there will be beggers around there want force you to buy their stuff, and you might be cheated by them (As what been told by my tour guide, the begger will sell you A and after you'd paid they will change it to B from their bags) So, just becareful..

Another important thing that has been missed out, it's SPA (Must do in Bali) Super cheap packages that you can get here. (Price is actually negotiable if you go by group)

Next, Food (my favourite) keke.. you must try Babi Guling (Fried pork), itik bebek (Roasted duck), Nasi Padang (Bali local food), and instant mee at the store down the street. Erm.. nothing much different but just a try for their local food.

Itik Bebek

Babi Guling


Bali Instant Mee- wahaha.. Hey, quite nice (Dun play play)

Waiting for departure....

Last view @ Bali on the plane.....

For a funny Bali video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjA8fL7FPpA

What's Marriage about?

Today is not a good day for me.. Just because i received a bad news from one of my best friend regards on her marriage. What is the worst matter when it comes to a marriage? Money? Kids? nope.. It's an affair.. Im really sad on that and this was the third time I heard this tearfully complaint from this best friend of mine..What the hxxx is the guy doing!! A year plus new-marriage with a new born child but having an affair outside!!!!! This is not the first time hearing about broken marriage among my friends, what is really happening outside the world? That's why alot of psychological abnormality, meltal illness patient out there. And "Pretty Women walking down the street shall change to "Many Psyco's" walking down the street. Eventhough if happens there really a Pretty Women walking infront of you, beware.. coz you won't know if she's one of the psyco.

Well, I'm not from a well-established family. An affair from parents is really bad for any kids's growth, either emotionally or physically.. There's a so call "Butterfly Effect"It has been said something as small as the flutter of a butterfly's wing can ultimately cause a typhoon halfway around the world. - Chaos Theory. And for those so called "Parents", please bear in your mind that this really hurts and eventually destroy the brought-up childhood and their whole life, who will really understand this? Of course, thanks god I am still alive and I'm always stronger than anyone, I believed this is self-protection which has been forced to brought me up faster than anyone who was deadly pampered.

What comes after the wedding ceremony and several years later? Being bored with your partner and accidently fall in love with one's wife or bump with mistresses for that sort of thing. Come on, you should be responsible for your own and your wife, and the new born child who wish to have their own good daddy, mummy and his/her perfect family.. Then why you want to get married at the first place! Gosh... Do you notice that you are ruining people's life. And girl, never being stupid to fall in love with a married guy, you need to have self-control! But if you thought that you are that great enough to make things happen, then I shall wish you good luck for the coming retribution. I believe that indeed, you will pay back what you'd done today.

Going back to my topic-What's Marriage about? Perhaps the key to a successful marriage lies in understanding the metaphysics of it, along with its evolution and a keener understanding of what commitment truly is. Love in these marriages was not even considered. As marriage has evolved, people have evolved as well, and not yet discovered that marriage has moved out of the realm of the physical and into the realm of a spiritual partnership. Well, that's why I am still single and enjoy with my life..

But for those who get married, please be responsible to yourself, and your family. Marriage is not an easy thing, especially giving birth to a new born child. Education is very important! Im not talking about educating the children, but make sure you educate yourself before you educate your own generation if you want them to be educated!

For women: http://thestar.com.my/lifestyle/story.asp?file=/2008/10/13/lifefocus/2033693&sec=lifefocus
Related site: http://members.tripod.com/~Dr_Roth/index3-00perceptions.html