Thursday, May 14, 2009
Monday, April 13, 2009
家里造反的一天！
上星期六好忙。
因为下午去了买礼物给亲爱的老爸-五十岁生日。
然后和祥去了BoonBoon Cafe 吃午餐-下大雨，只能逗留久点。
回到家，祥妈煲戏-珠光宝气 直到六点多吧。祥在二楼打机！我在三楼弄结婚卡！-不是我的啦！
大概到七点吧·我们才吃晚排-遇见Agatha，Shien Ling，还有Egg。
回到家我和祥开始看盛世人杰，文大概十一点才回到。
原本以为祥妈回房睡了！岂料她是回房继续煲戏！因为如果祥爸在的话，都是十点半就睡了！ 哈哈哈哈
最爆笑的是祥吃不饱！然后就问文要不要打包mamak.
谈谈下讲到Mc.Donald. 然后又说买Roti Pisang．我就奇怪问，有卖Roti Pisang的吗？文说：“你是不是大马人，你不知道有卖的吗”－就奇怪怎么Mc.D 有卖Roti Pisang？？ 就说ＯＫＯＫ。
结果，原来。。不是Ｍｃ。Ｄ的ＲｏｔｉＰｉｓａｎｇ！他们几时有讲是买回Ｍａｍａｋ的！
大概是一点吧。三人在厨房吃着吃着！文竟把ＮｅｓｃａｆｅＡｉｓ倒翻了在Ｒｏｔｉ上！还流到地上去！三人又手忙脚乱的赶紧－毁尸灭迹！一边抹一边笑个不停。直到马干净了！我们的 Roti 变成Roti Pisang tambah Nescafe了！然后继续煲带！文打Ｇａｍｅ！
原本以为我们昨晚的事可以瞒天过海，结果葛天早上祥妈问起。哈哈。还是穿帮了！
因为下午去了买礼物给亲爱的老爸-五十岁生日。
然后和祥去了BoonBoon Cafe 吃午餐-下大雨，只能逗留久点。
回到家，祥妈煲戏-珠光宝气 直到六点多吧。祥在二楼打机！我在三楼弄结婚卡！-不是我的啦！
大概到七点吧·我们才吃晚排-遇见Agatha，Shien Ling，还有Egg。
回到家我和祥开始看盛世人杰，文大概十一点才回到。
原本以为祥妈回房睡了！岂料她是回房继续煲戏！因为如果祥爸在的话，都是十点半就睡了！ 哈哈哈哈
最爆笑的是祥吃不饱！然后就问文要不要打包mamak.
谈谈下讲到Mc.Donald. 然后又说买Roti Pisang．我就奇怪问，有卖Roti Pisang的吗？文说：“你是不是大马人，你不知道有卖的吗”－就奇怪怎么Mc.D 有卖Roti Pisang？？ 就说ＯＫＯＫ。
结果，原来。。不是Ｍｃ。Ｄ的ＲｏｔｉＰｉｓａｎｇ！他们几时有讲是买回Ｍａｍａｋ的！
大概是一点吧。三人在厨房吃着吃着！文竟把ＮｅｓｃａｆｅＡｉｓ倒翻了在Ｒｏｔｉ上！还流到地上去！三人又手忙脚乱的赶紧－毁尸灭迹！一边抹一边笑个不停。直到马干净了！我们的 Roti 变成Roti Pisang tambah Nescafe了！然后继续煲带！文打Ｇａｍｅ！
原本以为我们昨晚的事可以瞒天过海，结果葛天早上祥妈问起。哈哈。还是穿帮了！
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Simple Vs Real FRIEND
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book..
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call..
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over whenyou have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book..
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call..
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over whenyou have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
婚姻失败，是人的问题吧。
今天受到消息，谁谁的夫妇要离婚了。结婚为期一年。孩子刚满三个月。天啊！
离婚理由，第三者。
请问，这社会生病了吗？还是现代的年轻人都把婚姻及生育看得那么儿戏了吗?
更好笑的是，这第三者将结婚，而她对外说她最爱的不是她老公！是这位情夫！
那么她嫁来干嘛？还要提的是，她是位“教师”！
这并不是故事！是事实啊！
那小孩怎样？交给奶妈带咯。生活费由男方给咯。
真的可以看待得那么简单吗？
难道你身为爸爸，和妈妈那么的儿戏吗？
那么这小孩的一生将被摧残！因为他没有“爱”。他被“遗弃”了。
有父母等于没父母，我想儿童院的小孩会比他开心，起码有班兄弟姐妹在一起。
所以啊，结婚，离婚，请三思！
结婚可以是两个人的事，但是离婚，可是很多人的事！
离婚理由，第三者。
请问，这社会生病了吗？还是现代的年轻人都把婚姻及生育看得那么儿戏了吗?
更好笑的是，这第三者将结婚，而她对外说她最爱的不是她老公！是这位情夫！
那么她嫁来干嘛？还要提的是，她是位“教师”！
这并不是故事！是事实啊！
那小孩怎样？交给奶妈带咯。生活费由男方给咯。
真的可以看待得那么简单吗？
难道你身为爸爸，和妈妈那么的儿戏吗？
那么这小孩的一生将被摧残！因为他没有“爱”。他被“遗弃”了。
有父母等于没父母，我想儿童院的小孩会比他开心，起码有班兄弟姐妹在一起。
所以啊，结婚，离婚，请三思！
结婚可以是两个人的事，但是离婚，可是很多人的事！
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
好姐妹出嫁记！幸福三二一
人说：人生如戏，戏如人生。
跟我一同相处了（由十三岁至今吧）的红颜知己-陈晓燕。终于嫁得出了！
心情当然是开心啦。因为我们都是女校成长的，少女时期当然会期待谁会是最快嫁出去的咯！
其实燕结婚当天我真是差点就不能出席了。当然是因为我的病情。还好医生都鼓励我出席，不过我且没告诉医生我会全程参与，并指示！哈哈。。
因为最初的安排是由思嘉“代君从令”出嫁时玩兄弟的。怎么天意弄人，燕拜六即将出门了，思嘉拜二入院了-中蚊症！哈哈。。。 直到星期五，幸好思嘉可以出院了，还要是这里出院，那里就跟我们回芙蓉了！当天祥和Kuan 都担心思嘉会在拜六出现，结果连续拨了好几通电话给思嘉再三确定她的出席！当然我和燕都只能兜着肚子笑啦。所以啊，男人千万别得罪女人。当晚我们三人吃了美味的红枣鱼，青菜和粥。因为我们三个都是病人，燕有感冒，思嘉有蚊症，我呢-哈哈。。 三位美女当晚还上指甲油到一点多。。
宴会大概有二十多桌，我，祥，思嘉，啊Nick都全程跟着拍照和录影，新郎新娘当然敬酒敬得开心，因为当晚都是在享用礼宾拿！哈哈哈哈。。酒会过后，终于可以休息了。我们都坐在外面谈天，燕和Kuan在和来宾们道谢。思嘉跟Kuan的父母在房内点名，算钱。 Ah Che 更三八到在燕的点名簿上写着“问世间情为何物，直交 “教”加上Ｘ“写错字！” 。还可以连续写两面！
跟我一同相处了（由十三岁至今吧）的红颜知己-陈晓燕。终于嫁得出了！
心情当然是开心啦。因为我们都是女校成长的，少女时期当然会期待谁会是最快嫁出去的咯！
其实燕结婚当天我真是差点就不能出席了。当然是因为我的病情。还好医生都鼓励我出席，不过我且没告诉医生我会全程参与，并指示！哈哈。。
因为最初的安排是由思嘉“代君从令”出嫁时玩兄弟的。怎么天意弄人，燕拜六即将出门了，思嘉拜二入院了-中蚊症！哈哈。。。 直到星期五，幸好思嘉可以出院了，还要是这里出院，那里就跟我们回芙蓉了！当天祥和Kuan 都担心思嘉会在拜六出现，结果连续拨了好几通电话给思嘉再三确定她的出席！当然我和燕都只能兜着肚子笑啦。所以啊，男人千万别得罪女人。当晚我们三人吃了美味的红枣鱼，青菜和粥。因为我们三个都是病人，燕有感冒，思嘉有蚊症，我呢-哈哈。。 三位美女当晚还上指甲油到一点多。。
也不知真么的。我明明教了闹钟，还是不会响·幸好燕的化妆师拨电给我！
起身了，开始化妆了，亲朋戚友也开始到来了。 其他所谓的“姐妹”也不知来是干嘛的！召集人的时候也可当听不见！拿去打靶算了！ 真的还好思嘉在，不是的话！我真的不能分身了。
准备了美食给兄弟之后，就飞快的变身了。
接下来，兄弟车来了。Hugo 也来了，还很有型呢。因为它戴着BowTie。
我可以说，这次是我当过姐妹最幸苦的一次，这班兄弟还有新郎一点都不合作！
很多游戏都草草了事。也没力气了。最后还要出动燕的爸爸叫新郎唱歌都不肯，因为他知道他老婆不在房间。我真是快晕倒！！安排好了车子便上回KL男家了。
我可以说，这次是我当过姐妹最幸苦的一次，这班兄弟还有新郎一点都不合作！
很多游戏都草草了事。也没力气了。最后还要出动燕的爸爸叫新郎唱歌都不肯，因为他知道他老婆不在房间。我真是快晕倒！！安排好了车子便上回KL男家了。
入门，敬酒过后，我们就各自回家休息了。这回真的累死了，感觉真的不想起来。回家吃了鸡饭便睡到四点半。起身冲凉更衣擦不多五点半才出门去打包Mc。Donald。 去到饭店都快六点半了，主人家还没到。。 拿了Laptop来放出菜仪式的歌却开不到， 迅速的安排其他东西过后，酒席也将开场了。好累啊！脚痛极了！当晚我只吃到鸡肉两块，鱼刺一碗，因为我的nugget 给人偷吃了！
宴会大概有二十多桌，我，祥，思嘉，啊Nick都全程跟着拍照和录影，新郎新娘当然敬酒敬得开心，因为当晚都是在享用礼宾拿！哈哈哈哈。。酒会过后，终于可以休息了。我们都坐在外面谈天，燕和Kuan在和来宾们道谢。思嘉跟Kuan的父母在房内点名，算钱。 Ah Che 更三八到在燕的点名簿上写着“问世间情为何物，直交 “教”加上Ｘ“写错字！” 。还可以连续写两面！
这么一闹便一天了，大家都累倒了！我们大概一点钟才回家。回到家，一杯ＭＩＬＯ喝下去便呼呼大睡至道第二天的十二点。
不过说真的，燕这次结婚真的很幸福，因为她不需烦那么多，也不用敬那么多茶，还有时间给她睡觉和吃喜筵的食物。算是简单快乐。
就那么简单的一天，从此由陈小姐变成“陈太”了，是由“Ｃｈｉｎ”变“Ｃｈａｎ”罢了！起码我可以出席及参与这次的宴会，真的无遗憾了。
衷心的祝福Ｋｕａｎ和燕 “幸福”！
不过说真的，燕这次结婚真的很幸福，因为她不需烦那么多，也不用敬那么多茶，还有时间给她睡觉和吃喜筵的食物。算是简单快乐。
就那么简单的一天，从此由陈小姐变成“陈太”了，是由“Ｃｈｉｎ”变“Ｃｈａｎ”罢了！起码我可以出席及参与这次的宴会，真的无遗憾了。
衷心的祝福Ｋｕａｎ和燕 “幸福”！
Sunday, January 18, 2009
我的第一次。。（17.1.09）
其实打从上一年的二月就开始发现我的乳房有硬块。便做了全身检查。当时医生说还是早期，叫我别担心。那么过后我也不加理会。但是其间觉得它越来越大了，直到七月公司提供的全身检查-我才询问医生有关我的硬块。他细心的帮我检查并询问有关我的病情，及病例。然后很热心的帮我写了封推荐信给他熟悉的乳房专科医生-Dr。Patricia Gomes（Pantai Bangsar Medical Centre) . 我并没有立刻进院，是因为那几个月我都忙于工作，因为我要赚更多的佣金！在八月的26 日（生日后的一天），我和我的好姐妹-燕 忙了一早上网订购AirAsia 的澳洲墨尔本机票,Yahoo！！ 终于有机会去澳洲了！那是我们俩在中五的梦想-一起到澳洲旅行！旅期是在14-25/11/08，十一天的旅程，第一次享受这么长的旅行！还要是我自己付钱的！这份喜悦简直无法形容! 好感谢我的公司及Edward， 因为是他给我的机会！赚更多的钱享受我的人生！ 当然，这也是重要的原故，我没选择去看医生，应为虽然我会很担心病情恶劣，但我更期待用有个开心，难忘的旅程。（因为我不想开刀后这样不能吃，体魄没力气，需要其他人照顾等等。。我只想开心的，放纵的玩）
好啦。回来后，十二月我更不能走，因为公司没人了！我也知道我需努力帮公司，即帮我自己！直到一月啦，有一天不知为何燕忽然叫我去看医生检查，我说过了年吧！她说会陪我去，一定要在过年前（其实蛮感动的，因为我还有个亲人真正的关心我）好啦，拿起电话Book了checkup 时间，是16/1/09 早上。 等呀等着。。终于到了这天，星期五我们还一同看“虾壁”，其实是“侧壁2” 因为祥的妈妈念错了。哈哈。。 早上祥载我去和燕吃早餐过后便去找Bangsar Pantai Medical Centre 了，结果。。。迷路了。哈哈。。。接着燕拨电给他同事询问路线。好容易的，我们便找到了。登记，然后等了半小时，燕陪我进诊疗所，Dr。Patricia好好，可能有推荐信，询问了几个问题便叫我躺下帮我诊断。然后就抽去些细胞去化验，（那指针蛮大的）。过后就叫我到Ultrasound部门照，时间紧凑，因为他们十一点前关的，登记过后，等不到五分钟就进去了，换了衣过后便躺下开始乳房超音波，结果发现原来我的右胸是有两粒瘤（不知是好是恶），然后再照左边（还好没事）。然后就完成了今天的检验。就这样我和燕也踏出了医院。去Bangsar Village 附近shopping！女人呀，就是不管！哈哈。。 只是带着一点的疼痛，因为抽血的地方有点麻痹！接下来更好笑。竟然接到医院的电话叫我回去付钱！因为我们以为等拿报告才须付钱，也没人跟我们付钱便离开啦！幸好还在Bangsar附近！ 这就是我第一次检查乳房的经历！还蛮担心星期二的报告！也期待华人新年的到来，虽然没的回家！但是可以开开心心放假嘛！祝我身体健康！
好啦。回来后，十二月我更不能走，因为公司没人了！我也知道我需努力帮公司，即帮我自己！直到一月啦，有一天不知为何燕忽然叫我去看医生检查，我说过了年吧！她说会陪我去，一定要在过年前（其实蛮感动的，因为我还有个亲人真正的关心我）好啦，拿起电话Book了checkup 时间，是16/1/09 早上。 等呀等着。。终于到了这天，星期五我们还一同看“虾壁”，其实是“侧壁2” 因为祥的妈妈念错了。哈哈。。 早上祥载我去和燕吃早餐过后便去找Bangsar Pantai Medical Centre 了，结果。。。迷路了。哈哈。。。接着燕拨电给他同事询问路线。好容易的，我们便找到了。登记，然后等了半小时，燕陪我进诊疗所，Dr。Patricia好好，可能有推荐信，询问了几个问题便叫我躺下帮我诊断。然后就抽去些细胞去化验，（那指针蛮大的）。过后就叫我到Ultrasound部门照，时间紧凑，因为他们十一点前关的，登记过后，等不到五分钟就进去了，换了衣过后便躺下开始乳房超音波，结果发现原来我的右胸是有两粒瘤（不知是好是恶），然后再照左边（还好没事）。然后就完成了今天的检验。就这样我和燕也踏出了医院。去Bangsar Village 附近shopping！女人呀，就是不管！哈哈。。 只是带着一点的疼痛，因为抽血的地方有点麻痹！接下来更好笑。竟然接到医院的电话叫我回去付钱！因为我们以为等拿报告才须付钱，也没人跟我们付钱便离开啦！幸好还在Bangsar附近！ 这就是我第一次检查乳房的经历！还蛮担心星期二的报告！也期待华人新年的到来，虽然没的回家！但是可以开开心心放假嘛！祝我身体健康！
Saturday, November 1, 2008
What's friendship about? I've lost myself in this!
Friend - a very important person to chat around.
Best Friend - a very important buddy to share with all the happiness and sadness.
Dear all, do you guys catogorised your friend into certain stages?
Ya, I do.. eg. close friends, fren fren, not in my "friend" list, or totally out from my friend list.
Friend plays a very important role in my life, that's because i do not have a family to support instead of friends ever since young. And I do care with few of my best friends more than my own family members for sure.
But what ever it comes to a problem, the most that u care the most that u will get hurt. As it because you care about them. And I do really hope that my friend can life happily with his/ her partner in the rest of their life.. And that's why I really want to know their partner well, at least being nice and close with this person in order to ensure that my best friend are in "Safe" stage and treating in "Good Condition". Well guess that I'm too "Busy Body" to take care of this.
Because I know that I shouldn't involved myself in this kind of situation as people always said that "Love is Blind".And now im digging my own hole and splashing the build-up friendship into the graveyard. Is this really what I want? For sure "No"! Hundreds and thousands of "NO"!
Love is Blind and it need lots of sacrificed but not with a bliended eyes! Hey, my friend- Please take care of yourself if you don't want your friend to worry about you, and especially towards your relationship with your so call "Partner"! Because friends will be the only one beside you after breaking-off with someone, and as a real friend, I will always be with you. Just to remind you on precautions and protect you from being hurt from any kinds of situations.
Well, I think I really need to list out my friend list and see who shall be K.I.V, hybernate, or deleted from my friend list. For me now, I won't put much effort to maintain any relationship because I'm in another stage in my life planning to move forward without looking backwards..
For all my dear friends, please take good care for your own as Im really tired with all these stuff.. come on! Give me a break!
For those who are still in my friend list, well I wish you all have a great, healthy life with no regrets! This letter might sounds harsh but it's my words from my heart, a sad and broken heart towards friendship.
Best Friend - a very important buddy to share with all the happiness and sadness.
Dear all, do you guys catogorised your friend into certain stages?
Ya, I do.. eg. close friends, fren fren, not in my "friend" list, or totally out from my friend list.
Friend plays a very important role in my life, that's because i do not have a family to support instead of friends ever since young. And I do care with few of my best friends more than my own family members for sure.
But what ever it comes to a problem, the most that u care the most that u will get hurt. As it because you care about them. And I do really hope that my friend can life happily with his/ her partner in the rest of their life.. And that's why I really want to know their partner well, at least being nice and close with this person in order to ensure that my best friend are in "Safe" stage and treating in "Good Condition". Well guess that I'm too "Busy Body" to take care of this.
Because I know that I shouldn't involved myself in this kind of situation as people always said that "Love is Blind".And now im digging my own hole and splashing the build-up friendship into the graveyard. Is this really what I want? For sure "No"! Hundreds and thousands of "NO"!
Love is Blind and it need lots of sacrificed but not with a bliended eyes! Hey, my friend- Please take care of yourself if you don't want your friend to worry about you, and especially towards your relationship with your so call "Partner"! Because friends will be the only one beside you after breaking-off with someone, and as a real friend, I will always be with you. Just to remind you on precautions and protect you from being hurt from any kinds of situations.
Well, I think I really need to list out my friend list and see who shall be K.I.V, hybernate, or deleted from my friend list. For me now, I won't put much effort to maintain any relationship because I'm in another stage in my life planning to move forward without looking backwards..
For all my dear friends, please take good care for your own as Im really tired with all these stuff.. come on! Give me a break!
For those who are still in my friend list, well I wish you all have a great, healthy life with no regrets! This letter might sounds harsh but it's my words from my heart, a sad and broken heart towards friendship.
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